Why is it, that sometimes in our quest to fit in, we lose sight of who we really are?
Last weekend, I had the pleasure of meeting Dan Yaccarino at a workshop at the Greenville County Museum of Art. Mr Yaccarino has authored and illustrated more than 50 children’s books and he manages to keep it real by being himself. I was fortunate to come home with a signed copy of his book, Unlovable. Unlovable is a story of Alfred, the pug, who spends time and energy listening to the family and neighborhood pets tell him why he doesn’t fit in because in their opinion, his qualities and features aren’t as grand as theirs. Alfred tries to fit in but does not find joy in doing so. It is only when Alfred is himself that he develops new relationships that bring him contentment and fulfillment.
Like Alfred, each of us is uniquely qualified to fill a special purpose that ultimately brings joy to us and those around us. If you are not yourself, you will not be able to do the job as planned. The job may still get done but without the same vigor, voice and style that was created in you to share.
During the same day, I met the Carolina Chapter of the SCBWI, The Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators. (I’m still trying to remember the order of the letters so it flows). They are a talented group of artisans who are also keeping it real. Like Alfred, when I was with them, I found joy, contentment and fulfillment in just being myself.
Just Be Yourself. Nobody else is going to do it as well as you do.
Smiles,
Wendy